About Yoni Massage

Yoni is the ancient sanskrit word for ‘vagina’.  It’s a word of honouring, translating as ‘source’ or ‘sacred cave’.  In Hinduism, the female genitalia was regarded as a divine symbol of sexual pleasure and matrix of generation and the visible form of the Goddess Shakti.  The yoni is the sacred gateway to our connection with the source of all life.  A woman in touch with the power of her yoni is a woman of Grace, Flow, Sensuality, Wisdom and Compassion.  Like a Goddess herself.

A yoni massage

takes place after a whole body sensual and energetically sexually arousing massage.  After a woman is relaxed, after her breasts and belly have been gently and sensually massaged, she may be ready for the yoni massage.  It’s always your choice and call as to whether or not you want the yoni massage and you would be asked by your tantric practitioner before she or he inserted a finger gently inside, for the yoni to invite further in.

The purpose of a yoni massage is not to arouse, although this can be a welcome side-effect, and in some cases, orgasm is the result.  It is likely to be energetically pleasurable, and for some woman, it is a new experience to have so much gentle attention applied to the yoni, resulting in new and interesting previously undiscovered sensations. You may even experience full body energetic orgasmic bliss.

The purpose of the yoni massage is really to heal.  Women store a lot of their trauma and unexpressed emotional pain in the walls of the vagina.  Over time, this can build up, resulting in loss of sensation, and maybe creating the lack of desire for sex.  The intention of the yoni massage is to gently de-armour the walls of the vagina through holding various points within, allowing it to become more responsive, soft, and receptive to self-pleasure and to love-making.   This process can also facilitate the release of old emotions and the resurfacing of memories, which can be safely moved through the body and released with sound and the expression of emotion.

A yoni massage connects a woman with her pelvic bowl, which is a really centred place to move through the world from.

Other  benefits of yoni massage

  • Help you lubricate and or learn how to ejaculate
  • Help you become more naturally orgasmic, or learn how to orgasm for the first time
  • Help you reconnect with your luscious feminine energy, your body, and your sexual life force energy
  • Help heal vaginismus (painful or impossible intercourse)

Wonderful news Vancouver has a new goddess both in the Lower Mainland.

Tantra massage is a holistic ritual with elements of classic massage and tantra. During the massage you will encounter a variety of touches – for example, ablution with warm cloth, soft stroking and dynamic rubbing. You are being accompanied by pleasant music and scents throughout. The massage begins in a light shawl, which the masseuse will then slowly take off you. If you wish, the massage will include massage of the yoni or the lingam (the sanskrit words for female and male genitals). In a spiritual atmosphere you may regenerate and reacquire strength and joy of life. In stylish surroundings, all necessary hygienic equipment is included. You may also shower, and all necessary for the massage will be prepared for you.

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The Kulasvari Temple Priestess is a mystery by nature. As one who embodies the divine, she projects her individuality, personality, and skill through her unique being.  Trained in tantric sensual arts, she is unashamed of her body or level of expertise. She is abundantly free and beautiful! The adornments, jewelry, and makeup only accent the light that radiates through her. She may be of service to many people but she is a Temple Priestess, however, because she is called to this work from within herself, her heart, and her spirit.

Temple Arts

Training in the temple arts, the Temple Priestess becomes a conduit for the sacred energy (kundalini) of Goddess, or the divine female. The Goddess she embodies is multifaceted.  As Tantrika, she draws attention to the senses to the point that mental activity takes back seat to experience, offering opportunities for initiates to experience a state of oneness with body, soul, and place.  As Muse she is an inspiring gust of fresh air one to embrace desires, needs, sensations, intuition, instincts, and dreams.

Dakini

As Dakini, she teaches us to be intolerant of anything, which dishonors our spirit.  She works to assist us in becoming aware of false projections and negative imprints by creating sacred space in which all impurities, even those passed down through the generations may be heated up and melted away in the blazing fire of Shakti.

Boldness & Devotion

In the many spiritual lineages it is considered the greatest honor to be initiated into the Mysteries by a Temple Priestess. The responsibility certainly requires an expertise on the part of the woman, as well as the importance of her sacred role of infusing boldness and power into her partner, acting as an initiator. Through her training, transmission and devotion, she carries the sacred knowledge and power; and through her it is imparted to others.

The transmission of information can come from anyone, but initiation can come only from one that is skilled in the art of transferring the power on a subtle level to make the information effective. This training is crucial to her significant role as initiator, for it is she who ignites the spiritual fire, or Shakti.

Tradition of the Goddess

Working knowledge and inner tradition of the Goddess continues through the ancient spiritual practice of Tantra, honoring the female as a form of the Divine, and sensuality as a path to enlightenment. Their shared values are love, affection, genuine relationships, music, poetry, being in touch with nature, and the interconnectedness of life. Their truest, deepest values are those, which transcend the mind, and delve into the irrational world of feeling and the deeper layers of life.  This is one of the reasons the teachings of Tantra are so precious. They offer us a glimpse of a world with great reverence for sensuality, pleasure, and magic in the natural world, and ourselves as divine.

The aim of Tantric massage is to achieve personal growth through pleasurable, physical touch. Traditional massage has become somewhat cold and impersonal and fails to treat the person as a whole. Tantra teaches you how to truly feel your body as it is being touched and aroused sexually, to be in the present moment, aroused and alive.

Tantra, in these traditions, is an ancient art, philosophy and science that teaches us how to transform sexual energy into a truly spiritual experience. Its origins date back some 5000 years to old Chinese and Indian Traditions. Tantra massage was one of the rituals taught in the Tantra’s ancient books of eroticism.

Tantric massages use essential oil, which is spread at body by special slow movement, which loosen energetic center in your body and lift up your mental condition. It heals, energizes and revitalizes the whole body.

Tantric Massage is a ritual of receiving sensual kundalini (sexual) energy. Whether a man or woman is receiving the massage, your entire body will be massaged, including certain sensual zones.

There is but one temple in the Universe, and that is the human body.

We touch heaven when we lay our hands on the human body. Today in the West Tantra has often com to mean Spiritual Sexuality or Sexual Spirituality.
Result of magic tantric massage is incommutable erotic experience and improvement your health, but it is also good cognition of own body and primarily, you learn how to take care about yourself!

Tantric massage is not for shallow sexual satisfaction, because this is even better!

The two people each have a job in a Tantric Massage. The receiver’s only job is to stay present to the touch that is being offered, and to breathe. This breath helps keep you in the present moment and also helps move the sexual kundalini energy through your whole body.

The giver can begin the massage with your lover lying on his or her belly, the most important thing is to touch more lightly and slowly than you are in the habit of doing. Begin the next stage of the massage with your hand resting in stillness on your partner’s heart. Bring your focus to the touch itself, and use the same circular breath that your partner is doing.

You want to touch your partner as if you are feeling a luxurious fur, and drinking in the sensations of how it feels to rub your hands along this fur. The sexual energy may rise and fall during the massage, but you will work your way around your partner’s whole body.

Whenever you catch yourself holding your breath, gently pause the massage and hold your hands still on your partner’s body.

When the massage comes to a conclusion offer a Namaste “The divine light in me salutes the divine light in you” by placing your hands in prayer on your heart, staying and cuddling and nibbling on the food you set out for yourselves after the massage is a perfect way to close the ritual.

If you would like to enjoy a Tantric massage, you should be learning to be a sexual being without going into fantasy or trancing out.
We can also expand the consciousness and reawaken the spiritual dimensions, dimensions that are difficult to connect with in the fast paced technological world we live in.
We can bring immense pleasure to another human being without the coldness of traditional therapy and outside the intimacies of sex. It is one of the most basic urges of the soul and is part of who and what we are. It is part of everybody.

Through religious constructs and attitudes passed down from generations, we have been conditioned to view sexuality as something perverse.

As a result we avoid touching the person’s whole being for fear that this practice be construed as potentially sexual. Yet sexuality is natural. In a safe, healing environment we can benefit immensely from sensitive, nurturing touch. When we let go of the sexual taboos and channel our sexual energy positively we can bring about healing.

It creates an environment in which you can release stress and feel more alive in your body while staying fully present to your sexual energy. The issue is that energetic massage loosens all your spiritual and bodily potential, which you can then use. They are spiritually connected and when life force energy flows freely through each one our consciousness is elevated and our spirituality is raised.

All living beings pulsate energy and in traditional Eastern philosophy humans possess seven energy centers, known as chakras s that span the spine from the crown chakra, located at the skull, to the root chakra, located at the perineum. In Tantra massage no body part or chakra is ignored, unless the client so wishes. It is the root chakra that represents sexual energy, or kundalini.

You will know each other better after our tantric massage at absolute darkness or after hugging and stroking therapy.
A professional Tantric Practitioner can help us rediscover our true sensuality. This is a group of female and male massage therapists trained in the fine art of Tantric Massage which is guaranteed to soothe you and give you the experience of a lifetime.For many years pleasurable, physical touch has been suppressed. We are taught that to touch near or around the erogenous areas is wrong and unprofessional. Those who practice hands on therapies are inevitably exposed to the same oppressive attitudes. But Tantra could be the most effective way to lifting up your physical and mental condition using very pleasant methods. Women can benefit from a deeper understanding of their sexuality and how to achieve orgasmic sensation.

It expands the consciousness and awakens the spiritual dimensions.
The aim is to raise life force energy to the highest possible in every moment. It is a combination of lovingly touching along with sensual and erotic massaging of your entire body including certain sensual areas that gently soothes the body along with its spiritual senses. It is a meditation, a dance and it time outside of time.

Through Tantric massage, we can reach our full potential and our lives can be greatly enriched with health, happiness and love.

Upon arrival of the sacred temple space, you’ll receive a loving greeting. Tantrikas will begin to open and relax you with a sensual foot rub while serving you tea. We will anoint you with essential oils to open your chakras so that you can open your body to fully receive. While getting to know one another we will do the Tantric practice of deep eye gazing to connect more fully.

Next the Tantrika will lovingly undress you during a disrobing ceremony. You will then be guided into a space of deep relaxation and honoring during your steamy hot aromatherapy bath– you will be completely pampered in the arms of the water Goddess. your bath, your newly invigorated body is gently dried with fluffy warm towels. As you’re immersed in a bath of warm water with essential oils, sea-salts and soft bubbles you’re gently bathed in the ancient style of sensual Bath Ceremony. The warm water and touch will begin melting away the stresses of your world and opening you. You’ll start feeling the connection and intimacy with your Tantrika.

After your bath, your newly invigorated body is gently dried with fluffy warm towels. Once you finish your bath you and your Tantrika(s) we’ll continue with Tantric intimacy and breath work. The Breath is key to opening the body and feeling energy flows for a multi orgasmic experience. Here there will be masculine/feminine flows and using body to body breath. During this breath session you may experience energy running thru your body, or you may have a woman sitting belly-to-belly, of yab-yum position while practicing deep eye-gazing with you.

Then, while relaxed on a comfortable divan, we will awaken your senses thru body and mind. You’ll be fed specialty treats while blind-folded–slipping into higher states of feeling and desire. You may be fed grapes, chocolates, tasty drippings, concoctions and aphrodisiacs. We’ll awaken your skin with feathers, nails and furs. Taking you further into bliss with feelings and smells of divine enticement. Watch one of the Tantrikas dance, listen to her sing the song of the divine feminine into your ear.

The ritual and meditative quality of a Tantra Sacred Touch. Your sensuality will be opened. As we move into the sensual-touch session, you will have the opportunity to experience your sensual energy–your body will be caressed and relaxed. Soft hands and adept fingers will move energy into every minute part of your being–into your head and temples, neck, shoulders, ever further-down to your most sensitive area. down to your most sensitive areas. Even your feet and toes will not escape attention.

We’ll take deep intimate breaths together; brining your body in complete surrender, so that your mind and body can fully release.The Tantric experience is a combination of therapeutic and erotic energy movement, as well as specific Tantric techniques. It is designed to clear any blockages in your body, due to emotional stress or physical tension, and open the body so that nothing is limiting your potential for more full body ecstasy session, given in a sacred space, allows the client to experience a connecting of his/her spiritually and sexuality.

Practitioners do not force their understanding of spirituality on anyone, but we do all work from a spiritual space within ourselves, no matter what our faith is. This in itself teaches the spiritual dimension of sexuality. During the massage, sexual energy is moved throughout the body, first and foremost towards the heart chakra, where it opens us to a greater love for oneself, all beings and to life in general.

Orgasm becomes a sacred experience of uniting with with the Divine – a very tangible feeling of being centered and whole – and a connectedness to the Divine, God, Existence, the Universe is the result.

Red Lotus Temple of Tantra is happy to announce that we are training Tantra Goddesses in Vancouver in October and Toronto in November. Goddesses are hand picked for her inside and outside beauty, skills and personality. Each goddess will be unique and lovely with her own set of gifts that she brings into sessions. Red Lotus Tantra now has two practitioners available in Calgary , Sasha Rose and Shekina.

Red Lotus Tantra is offering a brand new training and advanced tantra practice to Canada. This cutting edge program will teach novice to advanced seekers a clearly outlined path to tantric practice.

Tantric Massage is an Ancient form of Sacred Touch that Harmoniously Unites Sexuality, Spirituality, Body & Mind

Authentic Tantric Practitioners offer this sacred art for healing & tantric initiation. Held within us all, is a limitless power that we have suppressed & left to lie mostly dormant in our genital area, used only for the primitive act of sex.

Yet this energy unleashes and unfolds so much more to who we are and what we can achieve…

Tantra is the philosophy and spiritual daily practice that aims to reunite us with our original source of LOVE. Through connecting to Shakti (feminine) or Shiva(masculine) qualities we become whole in uniting to the main source of energy in theUniverse (God).

The Tantric practitioner seeks to use the prana (divine power) that flows through the universe (including one’s own body) to attain cosmic union.This is accomplished only when we engage all of our senses in the arousal process and are completely unblocked from stress, worry, anxiety, blame, guilt, and shame.

Red Lotus sessions dive deep into the physical aspects of Tantra. In the 5 Elements Tantra Sequence you will experience the impact of living in direct contact with reality through the physical body.

Tantra Practitioner training & Mentorship

Vancouver  :: Spring 2014
Toronto :: Spring 2014 (suitable for Montreal, Ottawa Practitioners)
Embrace this exciting career path of sacred sexuality

BECOME GIFTED IN THE SACRED ARTS – GODDESS TRAINING
Are you wanting to expand your healing potential and work with people in a more holistic and intimate manner?

Is tantra something you feel an affinity with or is the power of sexuality a force you have always known to be deeply healing?

Are you ready to become more grounded in your feminine sensuality and ability to show others the way to their own truth?

Learn the tools to create a life that is rich with spiritual connection, abundance and gratitude and become comfortable with the ever changing cycles that make a woman who she is – in all her beauty.

Training & mentoring is available to the right candidates and the Red Lotus Tantric Temple is committed to helping, supporting, training and developing every practitioner while he or she is with us. Learn more here

In love and light,

Any man can become “multi-orgasmic”.

It only requires a basic understanding of male sexuality and certain techniques.

Most men’s sexuality is focused on the goal of ejaculating, rather than on the actual process of lovemaking. Once a man becomes multi-orgasmic he will not only be able to better satisfy himself, but also more effectively satisfy his partner. 

Multiple orgasm versus Ejaculatory orgasm. Both begin in the same way, moving from arousal until a point near ejaculation or “point of no return”. At this point a man will experience a series of genital contractions lasting three to five seconds. These contractions are “pelvic orgasms” and at first feel like a “fluttering” or mild release of pressure. Once identified and controlled, these sensations will become progressively more intense. When approaching “the point of no return” the goal is not to crest over into ejaculation but to decrease stimulation, just long enough to gain control over the arousal rate. Effective control can be achieved by squeezing the PC muscles. Learning to control the PC muscles is essential to sexual health and stamina.

How is multiple orgasm possible? The first key to understanding how men can have multiple orgasms is to understand that orgasm and ejaculation are distinct events, which one can learn to distinguish and separate. Most men have always accepted orgasm and ejaculation as one because they happen in such rapid succession, orgasm beginning slightly before (ejaculation) then tapering off during ejaculation. The second key to navigating the path to multiple orgasm is gaining the ability to separate orgasm and ejaculation. The ability to separate these events involves the pubococcygeal muscle, or pelvic floor muscle, or “PC muscle” as it’s more commonly known. You may know this muscle for its ability to stop the flow of urine in mid-stream. If stopping the flow is difficult, you have a weak PC muscle. If this is the case you will need to work on strengthening the PC muscle before you’ll be able to have multiple orgasms. If you squeeze or contract the PC muscle you should feel like everything deep in your pelvis is being drawn upward.

To learn more about becoming a mulit orgasmic man explore our tantra sessions.

 

Red Lotus Tantra tantric path

The word tantra comes from India and Tibet. It is the science and the art of being alive, based on practices that consciously explore life experientially. This practical exploration covers:

  • what does it mean to be a man? to be a woman? how can men and women really meet?
  • what is the depth of love? what is the height of sex?
  • how to create a fulfilling relationship without fear of rejection while staying true to yourself?
  • what is god/spirit?
  • what is death and how can it have meaning?
  • Desire, passion, pleasure – are they selfish or can they be spiritual?
  • how to be attached – committed, caring, passionate – and at the same time non-attached – selfless, tranquil, trusting?
  • What is the sense of life?
  • What is the most beneficial interaction between body, mind and spirit?
  • what is the nature of experience and perception? what is the relationship between the perceiver and the perceived?
  • how is consciousness different from thinking?
  • how do I distinguish truth from illusion?
  • how to feel more alive, become more charismatic and attractive to others?
  • how to create the reality that fulfills you?

In fact all the fundamental questions of life.

Tantra has answers to all these questions: it also has many explanations of how life works based on an understanding of energy, which is not part of our mechanistic culture, yet a grasp of which enables us to interact creatively with many aspects of life that were previously mysterious forces by which we were helplessly buffeted: relationships, love, sexuality, fate.
Above all, tantra does not prescribe answers: unlike a religion, it does not tell you what to think and believe. It gives you structures to explore these themes experientially and personally, and then to come to your own conclusions based on these experiences. The only authority in tantra is your own heart, your own sense of what is true for you and what your spirit needs to follow.
If you are interested in these burning life questions, if you want to find your own answers not just be given them by a higher authority, if you want to spend time with other people who want to explore what is the sense of life and how relationships function, then tantra is for you. It covers the subjects they didn’t dare explore at school!

Tantra is for free thinkers, for rebels, for non-conformists,
for seekers of alternatives,

for lovers, and lovers of life,
for truth seekers,
for seekers of excitement, for seekers of tranquility,
for seekers of meaning, making sense of existence,

for seekers of pleasure and delight,
for those who seek god,
for those who seek themselves.

What can the tantric path offer me?

  • Enjoy more energy and aliveness
  • Develop the ability to relax, to get out of your head, and be open to experience life in the moment
  • open your heart to love – of yourself and of your partner
  • find more sensitivity to touch and to energy
  • experience lovemaking as an exchange of energy
  • connect your sex with your heart and your spirit
  • feel your value and beauty, feel your desirability
  • experience many ways of enjoying and expressing and sharing sexual energy as well as or instead of genital sex
  • Develop witness consciousness to not have your buttons pressed, but be free of self destructive behaviour
  • Find freedom from addiction and obsessiveness
  • learn to become more present and focused
  • learn how to keep a long-term partnership alive and sexy
  • learn how to prolong lovemaking and choose when and if to ejaculate
  • be able to surrender to the pleasurable streamings of aliveness and energy through your body
  • free yourself from self-consciousness and self-criticism and experience life directly and immediately.
  • Be free to choose the reality you wish to create and live.

The Background of western tantra.

The word tantra has several meanings, one of which is that of “scriptures”, words of wisdom that have been taught orally by a teacher, and then written down, words of experience rather than words of a theory or philosophy. Many texts go back as much as 4000 years, and the wisdom itself is thought to come from pre-vedic, tribal times. The body of knowledge is arrestingly similar to that taught as fire medicine in the native American tradition, and there is good reason to believe that it is the remains of an ancient culture from times when people lived close to the earth, the goddess was honoured, and the relationship between men and women was not an expression of property but a celebration of the the mystery of life, seen in the macrocosm as the embrace of the sun and the earth, and in the microcosm as the miracle of perception embodied in the dance of Shiva and Shakti as consciousness and energy, sperm and egg meeting to create new life.

With the advent of the major religions tantra went underground, and became an esoteric tradition that still exists in quiet places, but maligned and distorted by the public imagination – in the West as sex orgies, in India as black magic. This successfully frightens many people away from experiencing its life enhancing and consciousness expanding teachings.

Tantra divides into two major traditions: the right-handed path and the left-handed path. Both see the universe arising out of the ecstatic dance and sexual union of the feminine and masculine principles, energy and consciousness, represented in the forms of god and goddess.

The right-handed path works with the sexual energy through sublimation, visualization, and meditation as worship of these principles.

The left-handed path challenges the follower to embody these energies, to become the god or the goddess and manifest energy and consciousness in themselves, in their thoughts and actions, in their awareness.

The left handed path is practiced not only by professionals, priests or monks withdrawn from life, but by ordinary women and men living in the middle of life, in the market place. Relationships, and especially one’s primary sexual relationship, can therefore become the conscious spiritual path of growth.

Instead of repressing desire and sexuality and pleasure as a distraction from the spiritual path of transcendence, the student gives the self into it completely, letting it become the tattva, the gateway, through which to lose the ego in the surrender to that which is greater than the self. Desire followed with totality and abandon takes one beyond, beyond the duality of attachment or non-attachment,

guilty or not guilty, sexual or spiritual, into being innocently in bliss.

In the 1970s the Indian mystic Osho, previously known as Rajneesh or Baghwan, created a blend of tantra and humanistic psychotherapy that became tantra for the West. This was brought to Europe by Margot Anand as SkyDancing Tantra, by Michael Plesse and Gabriele St Clair of Orgoville International to Germany, and in a later wave by Sarita in France/UK and Astiko in Spain as Osho neo-tantra. Daniel Odier teaches Kashmiri Shivaite tantra in Paris. Margot trained teachers in 1991-2 and set up SkyDancing Institutes in the USA, Germany, Switzerland, the Netherlands, and France, including that in the UK directed by John Hawken.

Some traditionally-minded tantric students and practitioners fear that the practice of left-handed tantra without long preparation and real dedication can debase the legacy of tantra and entangle workshop participants deeper in their own egos. There are indeed many tantra teachers who offer, and participants happy to consume, tantra as a new age entertainment and social activity. The attempt to simultaneously bring together sexuality and spirituality is a high endeavour. Yet if a serious student finds an experienced and inspiring teacher she or he can live moments of transcendence and empowerment, and create lasting personal transformation. And the path, the journey itself, is full of insights, moments of joy, and positive change.

Article written by John Hawken, The Tantric Path 

 

    Instructor and Practitioner

    Olivia is an experienced teacher, guide and tantrica who has spent the last fifteen years studying various spiritual practices, and the past 7 years specifically dedicated to tantra as an art of living. As a Certified Tantra Instructor and Reiki Practitioner, Olivia has been blessed to have worked with well over 1,500 men, women, couples, groups, workshops and classes.

    You deserve the best quality experience where nothing is rushed. Often in our busy modern lives we don’t take the time to slow down, connect, and enjoy our bodies and sensuality. As a result our sexuality and relationships suffer.

    Are you desiring?

    • Luxurious Pampering that Dissolves Stress and Leaves You feeling  Energized, Refreshed and Peaceful
    • Simple, Straightforward Techniques to Expand and Extend your Erotic Bliss
    • Overcome Premature Ejaculation, Erectile Disfunction.
    • A Safe Place to Explore all the Rich Aspects of Your Erotic Self
    • Amazing new techniques for beginner to advanced, for increasing virility, potency, control, pleasure and prowess
    • Techniques for the cultivation of focus, balance and sensual awakening

    I create a sensual environment for you to visit with me, relax, let go of the outside world and receive loving nurturing touch where time disappears and nothing is rushed. In addition I will share with you practices for conscious communication and relationship.

    I can also teach you how to master your sexual energy and become the best lover ever. I am highly trained and skilled in the Tantric arts as well as energy and somatic practices, emotional release, Taoist practices, and shamanic journey. I am a Tantra teacher and practitioner and what I offer is a conscious sensual journey through sexual healing, transformation, empowerment, and integration. I will ask you to think, feel, and express, as well as enjoy your senses and your body. I will inspire you, challenge you, and be your guide on the path to sexual and emotional wholeness and integration.

    Olivia cannot wait to meet you, and is eager to discover what adventures in your own life are waiting to be explored.

    “Set your life on fire. Seek those who fan your flames.”
    – Rumi

    Schedule

    March 2014 – Vancouver, BC

    To Learn more about me and my work please visit oliviajade.net

    Tantric Massage

    Tantra is founded on this Interconnection and Unity of the Universe. Through the intimate connection of body and universe, we can understand how sex and orgasm can be seen as a cosmic and divine experience. Sex may be used by Tantric’s to heighten their energies, consciousness, and connection to the universe – which can aid healing (peace, wholeness, power, bliss) and growth (self esteem). It is a path of inner union and ultimately union with divine. Tantra is a path to enlightenment.

    In Tantra we know that if we create on the outer level what we wish to experience on the inner level that it will be easier to achieve this. Thus, we dress ourselves and create our environment into that which best expresses what we want to find in ourselves and our relationship. We have created the outer for you in order to bring forth these qualities in each of you and in your love-making.

    The human being does not exist in isolation, but is part of the One and is connected to all other matter in the universe. Tantra is founded on this Interconnection and Unity of the Universe. Through the intimate connection of body and universe, we can understand how sex and orgasm can be seen as a cosmic and divine experience. Sex may be used by Tantric’s to heighten their energies, consciousness, and connection to the universe – which can aid healing (peace, wholeness, power, bliss) and growth (self esteem).

    Tantra offers you a way to let go of limiting beliefs and wake up to the knowledge of who you really are. In India this ancient tradition teaches us to honor both the feminine and the masculine within ourselves, and helps us to cultivate their union in a balanced way. It is a path of inner union and ultimately union with divine.

    Tantra is sexuality in a spiritual context. It’s methods are natural, joyful, and life-affirming. In all the great traditions of Sacred Sexuality, a sexual shaman works with sexual energy to open the heart, expand consciousness, and heal body, mind, & spirit. Sexual healing is too often left out of holistic health care, and yet can be essential to a person’s true unfoldment.

    Tantra is a path to enlightenment. It is nicknamed the “science of ecstasy” and focuses on heightening and prolonging the special awareness and rapport that exists between lovers during lovemaking. This view holds that the greatest source of energy in the universe is sexual, and places high value on ritualized intercourse. Sexual orgasm is seen as a cosmic and divine experience.

    Through slow and thoughtful practice in lovemaking techniques, you learn to comfortably extend the time of lovemaking. In this way you train yourself to be aware of not only your own feelings but also those of your partner, and ultimately all others through your partner. In this way, you use your sexual energy to merge ecstatically with your partner and through (and with) them you become one with all. Rather than having sex for your own pleasure only, you have sex for the sake of giving love to all beings.

    Tantric philosophy also teaches that everything is to be experienced playfully, yet with awareness and a sense of sacredness in every gesture, every sensory perception, and every action.

    There are many, many benefits. The greatest benefit is the awakening of an inner joy that you may have never known was there. You become able to open your heart to yourself at a deep level and make changes in your life that are aligned with your heart’s desires. In addition, by gaining mastery of your sexual energy, you manifest loving and fulfilling relationships, expand your capacity for spiritual ecstasy, and improve your health and vitality.

    Tantric sex is meditative, spontaneous and very intimate lovemaking. You learn to prolong the act of making love and to focus on, rather than dispel, potent orgasmic energies moving through you, thereby raising the level of your consciousness. Tantra transports sexuality from simply doing to actually being. There is no end goal in Tantric sex, only the present moment of an ideal, harmonious union. Tantra teaches you to worship your sexual partner and to transform the act of sex into a sacrament of love. Lovemaking between two partners, when entered with awareness, can be a gateway to sexual and spiritual ecstasy alike. Tantric sex attempts to awaken powerful psychic energies within through which we can enter into higher states of consciousness.

    Tantric sexual practices involve heightening sexual energy so that it can be utilized for spiritual growth and healing. They help you embrace the divine nature of your sexual energy and learn to flow it to the upper energy centers of your body, particularly your heart. When you do that, your sexual energy becomes a vehicle for the expression of love. In lovemaking there is an emphasis on igniting the woman’s shakti (female sexual energy) which is seen as the creative doorway to the divine and therefore a sacred gift to men. When this happens a powerful circuitry of energy occurs which increases the vibration of love between partners.

    In order to experience ecstasy it is important to clear the path in the body – and that means healing emotional wounds stored in your cellular memory. With the guidance of an instructor, you can dissolve barriers that limit you and find a whole new level of freedom in your body and mind. In addition, because we live in a patriarchal world, most people experience disharmony between the male and female aspects of the psyche. Healing work helps bring about the integration of these parts of yourself, which is essential to manifesting healthy loving relationships.